小学生持刀弑母是咋回事 小学生为什么会持刀弑母

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一个小学生亲手持刀将自己的母亲杀死了,而事件的起因则是妈妈因为孩子不服管教而打了孩子一顿。孩子在一气之下,便拿着刀将母亲捅死在血泊之中。为何会发生这样的家庭悲剧?

小学生持刀弑母

在以前的家庭教育中,一个人从小到大,挨揍的次数可能自己都记不清了,一直有所谓的棍棒底下出孝子的说法。然而随着时代的进步,社会文明的发展,让越来越多的父母意识到孩子和我们是平等的,棍棒教出的只是听话的孩子,但往往他们的天赋却会因此被束缚。

很多所谓的过来人总是说,孩子有什么不能打的,我们当年不就是被打大的么!没错,正因为当年挨打的人多,所以人会习惯性的以为这是正常的,自己做的不对就应该受到惩罚。然而,现在还有多少人提倡棍棒教育?曾经我们的爸妈打我们可能还要说一通各种都是为了我们好的理由,而现在的生活压力让太多人失去了耐性,一顿狂揍其实很大程度上都不过是自我发泄。

不管你是否承认,打骂孩子都不过是你自我情绪管理失败的结果。不管你如何冠冕堂皇的扣上各种体面的理由,都不能掩盖你无法控制自己情绪的事实。对于孩子的教育,不同的家庭都会有很大的差别,因为现在的家庭所接受的教育和经济情况差距都是比较大的,所以才有了有孩子了之后不要跟朋友谈育儿这个说法,因为很可能你们会绝交。

对于这个孩子的行为,很多人给出了必须绳之以法这样的说法,认为这么小的孩子就开始杀自己母亲了,那要是长大以后进入社会得祸害多少人?其实,对于孩子应该如何受到惩罚,这应该是法律范畴的事。对于我们自己,更应该反省的是自己平时的教育问题。

一个孩子的健康成长,除了有学校老师的教育,更主要的其实是我们做父母的。真正长大以后很成功的孩子,往往都不是打出来的,不要将自己任何的行为都归结于爱,我们每一个人都没有这么无私,即便是对待自己的孩子。多和孩子沟通,多了解他心里的想法,心理健康快乐往往比学习成绩这些重要的多!


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